Today marks one year since the shooting at Apalachee High School. As an alumna of Apalachee, and now a play therapist, my heart continues to ache for the students, families, and community who carry the weight of that day.
A tragedy like this leaves deep marks. Not only in the immediate aftermath but in the months and years that follow. Children and teens process trauma in unique ways. Some may act out, others may become quieter, and many will carry invisible burdens that are hard to put into words. That’s where play becomes so important. Play offers a safe outlet for children to express their fear, confusion, grief, and even hope when words feel impossible.
From a therapeutic perspective, the ripple effects of school violence touch every layer of a community. Safety (something that should be a given in childhood) can feel shaken. Classrooms, friendships, and routines that once felt normal can now feel fragile. Healing takes time, patience, and support, both within families and across the broader community.
Yet, in the face of heartbreak, there has also been resilience. I’ve witnessed students finding their voices, parents and teachers showing up with fierce love, and children using play and creativity to rebuild a sense of safety and connection.
As we remember this day, may we hold space for the pain and honor the lives impacted, while also nurturing hope for the future. Healing is not linear, but together, as a community, we can continue to walk alongside our young people, supporting them as they rediscover safety, trust, and joy.
With compassion,
Daniele Fleming, MS, LPC
Play Therapist & Alumna of Apalachee High School